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DON’T tell her how nice the girls are. Women don’t want to hear that courteous naked girls are dancing on your lap. We would prefer them to be bitchy. In an ideal world, you would come home from a bachelor party saying, “She had double D’s, but no charm or personality.” Of course she’s nice: you have a wallet. You may fail to see the connection, but your woman won’t. If she starts thinking about how much strip clubs cost, she will offer the unbeatable argument that they are too expensive. If this becomes the case, acknowledge her concern and suggest getting drunk first. And while that will most likely happen anyway, it’s best to avoid the subject altogether. You want her to go because it turns you on, not because you expect her to bond with the “nice” strippers.
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DO make it an event. “The first time I went to a strip club, it was on a date,” says Renee Smith, 26, of New York. “It was his friend’s birthday, and the friend’s girlfriend told me she’d promised him she’d go, but wanted another girl to go along.” Initially she was surprised by the request, but once she agreed to go, she ended up enjoying herself. “It was more about the four of us having fun than what was going on onstage,” Smith explains. Making the strip club part of a celebration enforces the idea that strip clubs are an occasional frivolity that is not taken too seriously. Your girl doesn’t have to worry that you will become some pig in a suit with no life outside the strip joint, or that you would expect her to condone such a lifestyle. Keep it lighthearted, fun and sexy.
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