Don`t Buy Her a Drink
If a girl is into you, she will talk to you regardless of whether you buy her a drink or not. At best, buying her a drink guarantees a few minutes of small talk. If you`re looking for more, and she seems interested in you, let some stiff buy the drink, eat up his 5 minutes, and then you can move in.
Choose Wing Men Carefully
If you`re a little shy, having a wing man is great idea. The guy that isn`t afraid to talk to anyone is a must for breaking the ice. Just make sure he isn`t:
- amazingly better looking than you
- more than 4 inches taller
- built like an Adonis
- a billionaire
- a movie star
- or someone that every girl will have no choice but to lust after and won`t even care or notice your existence because of his presence
Get Right to the Point
I once had a 35-year-old nurse approach me while I was djing (I was 22 at the time). She walked over to me, looked me up and down and then proceeded to ask me “what my deal was”
(translation, she`s interested.) I gave her a very cold reply.
She asked me if I could recommend a club where she good find a real man - that these banker wannabe`s in their
popped polos weren`t doing it for her,
(translation, she wants me to take her home, but to be assertive about it). I proceeded to tell her she wasn`t leaving, to cut the crap because I knew damn well that she wanted to go to bed with me. Of course she got defensive and told me I was full of myself
(the test) – but ultimately, she proved me right.
Use the above method with caution: Saying the wrong thing to a woman, especially something vulgar, and you may find yourself
tossed right out of a club. If you`re going to be bold, be sure.
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Edward Hertzman
e. ehertzman@debonairmag.com
In 2006 Eddie co-founded Debonair Magazine - a men’s lifestyle publication dedicated to serving style-conscience young professionals. Eddie’s style commentary can be found in assorted men’s publications and national newspapers including FHM and the New York Daily News.
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