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OK guys. Let’s talk feng shui. Feng what you ask? Let’s just say it’s an old Chinese term for “You get house together - your life fall together right away!” In other words, it’s a way to get your living space (whether it’s a dorm room, apartment, or basement crib at mom’s house) to say “I’m successful,” “I respect myself,” and of course “I’m Debonair.”
Yea, chances are if you’ve got surroundings that throw off “career success vibes,” you’re going to have a better chance at getting a promotion than if you have a place that smells like an old gym bag. This brings us to feng shui rule number one: What is going on in your life is going on in your environment. Let’s face it, the king doesn’t live in a cardboard box and the poor guy doesn’t own a castle - everything around you is saying something whether you are aware of it or not. Your living quarters are spilling the beans on what you think about yourself, what you think you deserve, and what you believe is possible to achieve.
I’ve taken the liberty to decode the secret feng shui language for the average single guy’s apartment. See if you can move some of your stuff to change your life:
WHAT YOU’VE GOT
One nightstand by the bed
WHAT IT MEANS
You’re not looking for a permanent mate or not going to be successful if trying. You’re possibly into “one night stands.” – Two matching nightstands hold the possibility for “making a match” with relationships - as long as you don’t fill them both up with your stuff!
WHAT YOU’VE GOT
Head of bed/office chair back against a window
WHAT IT MEANS
You don’t get the respect you deserve - probably ragged on by boss at work, teachers at school, or peers. – Well respected people have a strong solid wall behind them where they sleep, work, and hang out a lot.
