She's always out late. She comes home whistling, looking like she just got mounted at the rodeo and loved every second of the dangerous ride. While many women cheat, not many women do it to get caught. Women can be calculating and decisively cunning; they will not give us men any hints purposely, but might drop subtle signs that you are the only one trying the monogamy stuff anymore.
Do you worry about your girlfriend cheating? Look for these signs, but remember the only true way to know is by asking her...or hiring a Private Investigator.
She may start to dress differently. If your girl usually wears turtleneck sweaters and blue jeans, then switches to halters and high heels, you may have a cause for concern. Look at other aspects of her life: maybe she changed her attire because she lost weight or got a new job. Assess your situation and read on.
If your “one and only's” idea of treating you right is a microwave dinner, that's okay. But if she suddenly implements
a rapid transition to gourmet meals and a spic-and-span maid service, then she might be projecting an apology. Sometimes when a woman feels guilt for what she's doing outside of your relationship, she tries to overcompensate when she sees you. Be on the lookout and keep your eyes open.
She may try to reveal too much...in recounting her nights on the town. If she goes off on tangents about the evening's activities--telling you everything from the color of so-and-so's socks to what time they ate--perk up your eyes and ears. This is information that no one cares about, and she may be trying to steer you away from the real issues and focus on the trivial.
Does your woman snap at you for asking her simple questions? Does she become overly defensive? If she responds to your “Hi, honey. How was your day?” with a “Get off my back, you control freak,” she may desperately be trying to hide something. To you, the questions mean nothing, but she feels like a criminal in an interrogation room.
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