To avoid this mess, utilize the double finger “come-hither” motion, slowly caressing and beckoning her to come with a simple, steady move. If she seems to be enjoying this, try fluttering your fingers a bit; however, if your flutter evolves into scissor kicks, you’ve taken it too far.
Prolonged fingering can also cause irritation. In general, most girls will not get off from fingering, no matter how good you are. It’s like a hand-job—you are your best stimulation. Normally, if your girl hasn’t gone after fifteen minutes, it’s time to move on.
Men tend to commit another faux pas when they attempt to caress the clitoris. It should be gently flicked on, not rubbed, swirled, or pulled. A light stroke will do the trick; think sliding a dimmer instead of the turning off a lamppost.
The greatest male misconception is that women need some kind of downstairs hand or mouth foreplay to be put in the mood. Women are extremely turned on by caresses and kisses, and when asked of their favorite form of foreplay, the overwhelming response was dry sex. A few slow but hard over-the-pants grinds can crumble the foundations of our “Not-until-we’re-exclusive” vow.
Don’t get us wrong, a little fingering can be great and is still highly recommended. If you are going to venture on down, however, just remember: be gentle, massage—not jab, and don’t over do it.
If you want to make your mark down under, then the ultimate maneuver—a conglomerate of all the best tips—is the tongue/finger combo: slowly rubbing the inside of a woman with two fingers (the aforementioned “come-hither” motion), while simultaneously flicking and/or writing your name on her clitoris with the tip of your tongue—be sure to add in a lot of O’s and S’s if your name lacks them. That, my friends, will do the trick. And if you’re still feeling uneasy about it all, remember:
“DRY SEX! Don’t forget to tell em' about the dry sex!”
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