The soft and sensual caresses and kisses that you’ve been waiting to plant on your lady all night have escalated to desperate grabs and soft--yet purposeful nibbles. She looks at you with that provocative eye and your heart thumps faster—you think to yourself: “enough is enough, its time to make my way downstairs.”
Most guys at this point assume that they must kick things up a notch in order to ensure forward momentum instead of getting trapped in second base hell. Being that many guys are uncomfortable or afraid of using their tongue (don’t worry too much, some girls share these sentiments), their fingers become the popular tool-of-choice to get things rolling. However, when asked, most girls not only don’t get off from fingering, they actually find it quite painful.
It’s time to fix this dire problem.
If you want to get the job done right, the art of fingering must go beyond the basic rules of “The Shocker” that you learned in your college frat. For one, incessant straight finger jabbing with your index and middle does not work. The inside of the vagina is slightly curved, so if you hit straight on, it feels as if someone is repeatedly poking you in one spot. After twenty minutes of this, not only will your girl not be pleased, the pain will cause her to go dry, resulting in the opposite outcome you were striving for. If you do end up sealing the deal that night, that is, if she is still up for it, she’ll be sore from the lack of natural lubrication and the irritation caused from your jabbing. Bottom line: no fun in the sack.
As one anonymous lady says, “Fingering can be nice at first, but once they start thinking of their fingers as their penis, it’s all down hill from there.”
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